What's the number one thing we hear most about change? Here it is: "People hate change."
Yet, everywhere we turn people talk about how they want things to change.
Sales leaders want more sales. Managers want their teams to pick up the pace and do better work.
We want our ...
Most people see others who have achieved the "impossible" and wonder how they pulled it off. I have some insight into this from my former days as a psychotherapist and the past decade of being a coach in the corporate world and to private clients.
I've been a therapist and ...
I define happiness as feeling positive about yourself and the progress you're making in key areas of your life. Think about your work, your significant relationship, your goals, and even your big dream. These are all things that can and should contribute to our happiness and sense of well-being.
But ...
Years ago I had a friend who sold life insurance.
He didn't really like it and he only made enough money to pay his bills.
I suggested he find another kind of sales job; one he was better suited for and one he enjoyed.
He insisted he just needed to ...
Happiness—it's such a broad topic and one we tend to make more difficult than necessary. At work and in life, your level of happiness couldn't be more important.
I was recently a guest on The Energy of Success Podcast, hosted by author, speaker, and trainer Marc Schwartz.
Marc is an ...
When it comes to “motivating” others (and ourselves) there are three well-known phrases I see and hear a lot:
As a former psychotherapist and now as a coach for the past decade, I have spent thousands of hours ...
Sometimes the reason we're not happier is because we don't want to be unahppy for a tiime while we deal with things we want to avoid. It takes courage to be unhappy for a time but it's the work we can do to create more happiness and fullfillment in life ...
Over the course of the past two weeks, I’ve had discussions with three senior managers about various challenges their organizations are dealing with. Or to be more precise, challenges the senior leaders are not dealing with. For instance:
When things aren’t going so well, it’s easy to think the problem is "out there." I know because I’ve been there. In fact, in 2008 I was in a dark place for almost a year and I was looking for the problem and for solutions everywhere but inside me.
If ...
One of my all time favorite songs is "Stand By Me." Whether it's the original version by Ben E. King or Bono and Springsteen or others, the heartfelt plea of the song never fails to get to me.
Here's another one: "Lean On Me" by Bill Withers. Truer words were ...
