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“They” Are Wrong, Don’t Listen To Them!

About six years ago, my oldest daughter Dana graduated from Loyola University School of Nursing, took her boards and became an R.N. Her dream was to be a nurse in the pediatric intensive care unit at Children’s Memorial Hospital in Chicago. As she shared her dream with others, everyone told her that it doesn’t happen […]


Who Makes A Better Leader, Women Or Men?

There are certain topics that can quickly turn discussions into heated debate. Whether women or men make for better bosses and leaders is such a topic. Attitudes and thinking about leadership in general have been changing over the past number of years. It seems that a high percentage of men and women agree on one […]


Three Life And Business Lessons From Texas Holdem Poker

Whether or not you like Texas Holdem Poker, or poker at all, there are some great life and business lessons we can learn from the game. I’ve written many articles on the psychology of poker for World Poker Tour Magazine and I play in a free Texas Holdem tournament once a week. I’m a student […]


Four Secrets To Taming Your Stress

If you’re talking to friends, family or colleagues, it won’t be long before someone is talking about the load of stress they’re carrying. Job stress, family stress, health stress, money stress, career stress… Take your pick, and someone you’re close to is probably talking to someone right now about being overwhelmed and overstressed in one […]


How To Deal With “Happiness Vampires”

In my last post, we looked at four tips to add more happiness to our lives. One of the tips had to do with staying away from what I call “Happiness Vampires.” A “Happiness Vampire” is someone who complains, whines about their circumstances and who is, more often than not, just plain negative and pessimistic. […]


Four Tips To Be More Happy!

If you would like to put more happiness into your life and your career, here are a few suggestions: Pay attention to the times you feel happy It’s easy to notice the times we’re frustrated, disappointed or feeling down. Decide today to pay attention to the times you feel good about yourself, your work and […]


Are Your Leading Your Boss? Why You Should Be

We all know that a boss is expected to lead his or her team. But what about your responsibility to lead your boss? You might be thinking, “What do you mean, lead my boss? I’m not the boss! Fair enough, yet, look at it this way: Anytime two people are communicating, one or both will […]


Make Me Feel Important!

Do you know who Mary Kay Ash is? She was the brilliant entrepreneur who founded and built the Mary Kay Cosmetics empire. Would you like to know the secrets of her success? A long time ago (25 years) I read a book by her on leadership and there was one thing she said that I’ve […]


Why Tough Times Are The Perfect Time To Move Forward

No one would argue that we’ve seen some tough times lately. High unemployment, foreclosures, banks not loaning money…need I say more? Companies and individuals alike are biding their time, waiting for things to get better. No big surprise there, has it ever been any different? Yet, not everybody, company or individual, is playing the waiting […]